What advice would you give to a guy that feels that his fate is already written and he cant change it?

If your fate is already written for you then just enjoy the ride.What advice would you give to a guy that feels that his fate is already written and he cant change it?
Well, since that guy is temporarily or permanently insane, he could probably get away with some sort of bizarre crime. Like dropping Jell-O off of a tall building.





You can get away with such things because you are, indeed, insane for believing such things:


And after all, if your fate is already sealed, then you have no control over where your life is going. Play victim once you get to court!





So, yes, do that.





Fill a 55-gallon drum with Jell-O and start scooping it out, off of a tall building's roof, onto the people many yards below.


There's nothing you can do to fight your fate, right? This is it.








...or, alternately, if you *do* do this, at my advice, then I myself have interfered with your fate.


So it wasn't sealed yet.


You could possibly get away with this then by explaining to the judge that this was something you ';had to do'; to assure yourself that you were *not* insane.





...but either way, you've got nothing to lose.What advice would you give to a guy that feels that his fate is already written and he cant change it?
Does he go to the movies? Why bother? The end is already written? Perhaps despite determinism WE HAVE TO MAKE our lives happen.





Suggest to him that he was destined to do nothing based on the radical misunderstanding of determinism that he was destined to make. Then leave him to it because it is either true or it is not, but either way you cannot change him.
I would tell him that he is about to be hit by fate, then punch him in the arm. When he asks what you are doing, tell him that it is your fate to punch him in the arm until he agrees that both of you are not being driven by fate.





I hope this helps.
I would tell him to stop thinking about it that way, or it will come true.





';One often meets his destiny on the road he takes to avoid it.';





Any attempt he would make, with the purpose of altering that course, will only allow him to get there faster. If he stops thinking about it, in order to appease his mind; he will at least be happy about other things.





If your thinking ';Your damned if you do, and your damned if you don't'; then you should probably at least try to be happy. Without making other people unhappy by doing so; directly that is.
tell me, what fate is this?


can you choose to heal or hurt


can you choose to help or hinder


every day, our big choices are not ever made.


those choices are made a little everyday.





everyday may seem exactly the same.


some will say it is chaos


some will say it is mundane


but everyday seems the same.





until you make a choice to be different and bigger than your situation.





oftentimes when we feel this way, we feel not that ourlives are set and there is nothing we can do, but we feel that anything we try will fail.





either choose to do away with the fear and do something else, or continue to have your life in an endless circle.





but also remember, that the fact that you are questioning on this means that something is being introduced into that loop.


you are introducing a small amount of hatred for the way your life is.


only when it reaches critical mass, do we deide to do something drastic, such as go back to school, or start our own buisness.





when you want it to change it will, because you will make it change
None especially if he isnt asking for any.





Some people are vulnerable and need fundamentalism to allay theri fears of chaos to try to tear it away from them is possibly cruel,. We only give up our defence system against living full lives when we are ready to do it .


Its a wast e of breath the information is all around - when he wants it.
feelings are often misleading just as all Ideas are not good ones.


I personally think that the greatest part of our being is in the ability to change. believe in your self and always remember,





ONE WHO CHANGES AND SUCCEEDS IS THE ONE WHO THINKS HE CAN.
Does his idea mean happiness to him. Then, I would say nothing.


Otherwise it is based on fear and not destiny.
I don't believe in fate.Any action you do has a consequence. It depends only on yourself.
Nothing...he is closed-minded anyways..
if you cant change something, challenge it.


i would tell him to challenge his 'fate' .
Not good luck,Finito is the word.