What is some helpful advice you can give a new mom?

I still have a few months to go, but big or small...do you have any helpful advice to pass along to a new mommy-to-be? Whether something you wish you'd done/known before the baby arrived, or something you learned after. Thanks!!!What is some helpful advice you can give a new mom?
yes First you are gonna have everyone telling you or trying to tell you how to be a mother i say screw them all and do as your heart feels, i hear lots of moms blaming other people for something about their kids so you have to be strong it's you baby dont let anyone tell you what to do, God gave us mommies an extra sense to know what to do or to sense when something is wrong, you'll be a lil drepress the first few days but that will go away be a pround mommy and and try to do the things that will make you baby proud to have a mommy like you regarless of what the world says or thinks.What is some helpful advice you can give a new mom?
Babies are not as fragile as you think they are.


Carry your baby as you work around the house.


Breast feed as long as possible(the more the better).


Try not to baby-talk your child beyond 8 months, they are a lot more intelligent than you think, and understand you a lot better if you speak to them in a normal voice using everyday language.
Well being a mom is always hard.


You never know when its the right time to give the baby this or give the baby that.


When your a new mother be careful for what you do.


Carry the baby not to hard not to soft.


Don't ever shake the baby when its little or big.It can kill the baby(NO LIE).


Don't give it anything that it is to hard for their soft gums to hurt.


You are going to have to wake up in the morning early,the afternoon,and you'll never have time to sleep.


Your going to have to breastfeed it....though when the baby starts to get teeth I highly recommend that you don't breastfead the baby.


Don't take him out right away.


You don't want the baby have mosquito bites.


Take him a bath carefully holding him(using a sink,you may want some help).


It's way better to make baby food at home.


It's much cleaner.


Theres way more but I don't have time to write right now.....





Hopes you luck,


Mariam
Take lots of pictures, especially of hands and feet, and always carry a change of clothes for the baby and a clean shirt for you! Good luck!
bathe them when you cant get them to go to sleep or calm down


video tape or take photos when u can


dont put cereal in the bottle


get on WIC lol