Friday, April 30, 2010

Advice on how to make decisions when you just can't choose between two options, how to stop deliberating?

My partner and I are trying to choose between 2 rental properties (first time moving in together) - we're both really indecisive so we just keep deliberating pluses and minuses getting nowhere..need to move the process on, please help!





How do you get braver about making decisions?





don't really want to toss a coin, although did try it just to see if felt disappointed with result and still didn't know!Advice on how to make decisions when you just can't choose between two options, how to stop deliberating?
Just drive up to the place as if you are coming home from work. Imagine that is the neighborhood you live in, that is your home. Do you feel like you are coming home to a refuge? Are you comfortable with the neighbors?





Is it a peaceful neighborhood or full of punks blasting their bass? Are there a bunch of barking dogs around? What about traffic and traffic noise? You need some kind of sanctuary. If the houses themselves are equal to you, pick the neighborhood that is the quietest.





If it's still pretty equal, pick the bigger of the two. You will never regret having more space.





But there is also the possibility that you are not comfortable with either one, so that is a sign to keep looking.Advice on how to make decisions when you just can't choose between two options, how to stop deliberating?
If you're both indecisive then step up and be the decisive one - just make the decision - be confident and feel good about it!!! Make the decision!
just pick the one thats most convenient for both of you and get a 6 months extendable lease, so if you dont like it, just rent someplace else.
Chose one that make you make you feel good inside the one that feels more like home
Write a list for both addresses - good points and bad points!





My mum used to say 'If in doubt, dont!

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