Plz stated rather you are married or not and for how long! thanks!!What advice do you have for couples who are getting married or are newlyweds?
YES married 18 years 3 boys later 16-6
2 dogs a GSD and a Beagle
ok we are happily married. contrary to what you have heard that married couples dont have sex after theyve been married so long. keep it interesting. we are still having sex like we are teenagers. weve experiemented etc. he got fixed so we could do it without worrying about an unexpected pregnancy
the worst things you will fight about thats not worth breaking up over but it will seem like your life is coming to an end... is bills (money) and he will mess the house up constantly no matter how many times you clean, no matter when you do the dishes the clothes dust he will always have clutter all over. that table that sits next to his favorite chair will hold everything and anything even if you just cleaned it off this morning by nightfall,, you'll wonder where that table went!
no matter how much you nag they still wont do it, or they will block out the nagging and forget what you asked anyways.
even though you have a dishwasher dishes rarely make it into the kitchen let alone the sink
guys like bubble baths and an occasional present too even after years of marriage in the middle of summer for no reason! just make them feel like they are still your main man, your BF with benefits! i tell him that all the time
that i still feel like we are dating we just get all the benefits of being married. like we are in the same room as each other so we dont have to wait until after school to call each other or what not..
just try different things as the years go by. find something you like to do together like walks in the park, play cards with each other, uno.. maybe even video games? we play with our teen son and his friends the little ones play the xbox with each other...usually after school....
include him in everyday things if you ever have kids and you go to the kid's halloween or christmas parties invite him to go along or to make something to take with you to contribute so they can say DADDY made this!
its not sooooo bad. really
and keep couple friends i dont mean A couple i mean try and get friends that are married instead of singles so someone doesnt feel out of place. we have a great family that we met at one of my husbands work he has a wife and now they have two kids we've known them now for 15 years but they work so much so we see them when we can they live over an hour away but we get togther so all the kids can play, we make dinner and side dishes and take to each others house we play uchre together and chicken feet with the colored dominoes etc...
btw im only 37 ! ive been married since i was 18 and i defied everyone that ever said i wouldnt make it and im dang proud of it!What advice do you have for couples who are getting married or are newlyweds?
Someone has to be the peace maker in the relationship. It is a horrible job, but it has to be done.
Regardless of blame, the peace maker has to at least apologize for their fault in the problem. The ball never gets to rolling on its own.
married, 20
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Don't have children...... life and marriage is soooo much better without them.
I think the best things for a married life is
1.comunicate EVERYTHING - no secrets
2. be willing to bend and adjust, like she should. Give and take - your both going to be adjusting
3. Understanding
4. NEVER go to be mad. Me and my husband have seen the sun come up before :)
Married 7 months and have dealt with more thab any relationship should
Good luck and congradulations
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Speaking as a couples therapist, try these helpful guides:
A Guide To Couple Compatibility
http://www.hearts-and-kisses.com/love-co鈥?/a>
Important Questions To Ask Before Getting Married
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Married 5 years.
The best advice someone gave me is to not freak out the first time you fall out of love. You will fall in love again. Just give it time.
Keep the lines of communication open, also DON'T go to bed angry.
Work together, because a marriage will never work if only 1 person is working at it.
Married now for almost 12 years.
Married for 3 years. OPEN COMMUNICATION. ABOUT EVERYTHING. You also need to have a good level of self esteem and condfidence not only in your self but in the relationship.
don't give up when the going gets rough. We all have rocky times. Unless he is abusive, stay with him no matter what. Married 31 years . Happily!
Both of u have to b best friends, no hidden secrets, no fear to say something or to try something new, he will always respect u if you r his best friend. I wish u good luck (I'm single).
Married 15 years and loving it. I'm not sure exactly what makes us happy, but my husband does something everyday that is sweet and thoughtful. We spend alot of time talking and just acting like friends. Our life together is still romantic and exciting, and sometimes boring. All that matters is if you are not selfish, and don't get too mad over small things. When you argue (and you will!) don't be set on always being ';right';. Remember that you are planning on spending the next 60 years together, and will it really matter if you were ';right'; 40 some years ago when you won that arguement over how to fold the socks correctly? Just always choose to get past it in a hurry and get on with just being happy. Best of luck!
Communicate. If you can talk about problems without fighting, and feel you can bring up issues without worrying that it's going to cause a fight, you can work your way through pretty much anything.
Together 15 years
put God at the center of your marriage
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